Flash back to a few days ago...We had agreed on not telling eachother if we were with anyone else...Since I am not that much into sex or looking for anyone new right now, I have been concentrating on being with friends and family and keeping busy....X boyfriend\now friend has been out partying hard and hanging out and fooling around with new girls..I didnt think it would bother me as much as would...But it has ultimately shattered me...I lashed out in jealousy, but explained to him the friendship thing was way to difficult for me..i cant deal with even thinking of him with another women, but I felt at a dead end because we both wanted and need such different things from the relationship..He wanted way more sex and affection and felt unappreciated. And I wanted things to be way more laid back, for me to feel like I could be myself without pressure..i really tried to have sex with him and be affectionate as much as I could, but I often feel like I have little sex drive, especially when we were always arguing..i know everyone will say we arent right for eachother..Move on...But I question myself, I question why we couldnt find a medium ground..he always seemed open to compromise, but I just couldnt even seem to always meet him halfway...I see how easily he can find another women....
He's probably feeling jealous but doesn't want to express it... and that's why it comes off in passive aggressive form..
WOWLOOK: those are dupes #121470 #121594 / ADMWILL88: that didn't work out well, now did it, the first pic you upload after being reinstated is a rotated pic 2x 🤨, final warning / DOOMGUY19: headless strike one / LUMP: actress Alena Savostikova , dupe #52675 / TOMCAT88: borders strike one / HERE2SHARE: dupe #128259 , watermark you're done uploading / celeb actress Jayden Bartels / RANDOMPERSON32: dupe #139631 / DDLGLVR: borders strike two , artificial overlay , model courtney knox.
Oh how I love the number 3.
Ask away I'm an open boo..
Learn from this: if you are respectful you get respect back. Continue to be respectful and your reputation will grow positively..
...but why do you think the line for "this difference is OK and the others are not" should arbitrarily be drawn between "paying for dates" and the above examples?.
To be honest that didn't help! I do fill odd and guilty but when I think about my relationship with my ex is was crap he never did anything and used me and my money. His answer for me when I asked him why he cheated on me was I was to perfect. And when I am with this new friend of mine I feel happy and feel that I am going to be okay and I am going to start accomplishing things for myself. I now that I don't want to have anything more then a friendship with him but its seems that even that rule goes away when I am with him too. I don't know I guess what I am asking is if I should sit down a tell him that I am not looking to be with anyone and that I do like him just its not a good time for me?.
Once a cheater and having succeeded to some level in deceiving his partner, always a cheater....so it goes..
Thanks for the advices. I thought about my insecurity a lot and I will take your words in heart. I even thought that this might be a good chance of testing him before we actually get committed (engaged, married, moving into a house etc. which we have been talking about last year). I'm supposed to get a house next year and we get engaged so he would move in to help pay the mortgage.... Now that I think about it, it's always better to know it earlier than later, because in the future he's gonna get a secretary or what that's gonna follow him all day as well which will also be beyond my control..
had to revisit my favorite fcl pic before i go. so amazing from the back and front view (y).
wow(y)is she a kardashian?.