both are perfect.
Nice Melons ..ahem.
I guess I'm old fashioned but I feel it's not only proper but it's absolutely necessary for parents nowdays to take enough interest to ask a few questions of the guys their daughters are going out with..
*if you feel like this is not at all the type of person you would like to date, good he made it easy for you by showing his hand after only 4 dates and bonus you don't even need to hash it out or spend time trying to get on the same page. Exposed....bye!.
I was fine with our relationship.
We have gotten in several fights about this, especially after I found emails to women he tried contacting off craigslist for sexual favors..
To me, it's not being selfish, I wouldn't have a problem paying sometimes, it's just that I prefer letting the man take the lead. My experience has been that most guys prefer being 'in charge' of the date, and I feel like offering to pay would make them feel a bit inadequate and less 'manly'. And if they ever asked me to pay I wouldn't mind and would probably do it, but I admit it would be a bit of a turn off for me..