I find myself in the same predicament. There is something about our personality type that makes us a target for these types of people. Its not that the other kind aren't out there and wouldn't like a chance with us...but the narcissist/abuser types take up all the space in our lives and the other kind can't get a clear shot with us..
Since women for the most part refuse to approach nobody can tell a girl is nice just by her standing in there in the corner waiting to be approached...
that ass is so tight.
she's something special!.