I never said anywhere that finding any relationship should be the end goal for most people. But for those folks who are seeking a meaningful relationship, the sad reality is that they are facing a dating culture that is actively working against them because of the need for instant gratification..
ya know... in those shades, she kinda looks like Bono from U2 in the face... smokin' body though.
Oh man.. I once dated a guy who refused to pay for anything, for dates he'd take me to burger king and only cause he had freebie coupons Losers...
The emotions behind "love" and "lust" have been around forever. However, most typically you would be married off to whoever brought your family the most benefit. Nearly all hunter gatherer societies perform this way. The whole idea of two people meeting and falling in love and then getting married was preposterous pre-1300's. In fact if you look at Romeo and Juliet written some 300 years later, you find the society teaching this kind of love to be dangerous and stupid..
So what's he now doing......trying to get me to say, "oh honey, you don't have to spend any night here......just do what you have to do......don't feel guilty"..so that, what...he can see his other chicks on the side? Am I intruding on his time with them or what?.
You know you want to....
Rule #1: do whatever you would do if the guy didn't exist in your life. Men appreciate independent women who value their careers and themselves more than them. Your (non-existing) relationship hasn't developed to the point where you refuse a good job offer just to be with him..
get real !.
You're a lucky lady!!!.
Yeah, at first I was kind of reluctant and then when I was just starting to really show that I liked him a lot too, it was suddenly over. Maybe it was just the thrill of the chase that excited him...ok, I really need to stop speculating and just forget about it..
ya now what i proably could get a AF or WF or any female if i wanted but the thing is no car, no job , and harldy any money io don;t ask em out, its just a matter of time.just play the game. i haven;t dated any gal so i can;t say but i think i can if i wanted to. i'm freindly, social and nice. and i flirt too.
Maybe the few, really good women are even harder to find not just because of their percentage, but because some of them don't try? Just a theory... but say there are girls out there I would like, that would like me. How would they even find me? Well, they probably wouldn't. I don't socialize very much, I don't date and I have more or less given up..