i don't think anyone can answer these questions for you. to be honest, as a guy, i feel pretty bad for that dude. imagine a guy you were dating secretly had no intentions of ever staying with you long-term but was with you to pass the time until he had more time to get out there and look for a better mate. you say "lots of guys do this, so surely it isn't that bad" well i don't see how what other people do, has anything to do with your morals and values. right now you're no better than any of those guys. as long as your content and happy with that, then carry on..
There's no need to be like that. I'm not suggesting I'm better than him, just different. In fact, I agree with you that intelligence is not based on educational achievements. He does have talents and skills that I don't have, but it comes down to whether we can have conversations that can be wide ranging and if I feel I'm having to explain things all the time. At the moment, it's basically speed of thought and ability to grasp concepts quickly. He just doesn't cope well..
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I apologize if I sound really shallow, but it is honestly what I am attracted to and I can't deny it. Lots of guys who like curvy girls would find her attractive. I am a slim/athletic build, and have always been attracted to a girl of this same body type (it's not like I'm fat and demand that I only date skinny chicks)..
Whoops. Didn’t know she was known. She just popped up somewhere. Apologies..
I told you what to do, stop communication so much, and stop talking about emotional stuff...that S%^$ gets you tossed into the friends zone. Right now all you are is her friend. She already put the brakes on about "dating", so you should be movin on. tell her when she is ready to give you a call. Don't be someones emotional tam*&^%. You will only want to get involved when she is over her heartache..
Wild lil kitty.
I am 52 and guy I met online through a popular dating app 3 weeks ago is 55. Once we started chatting via the online dating website, it was this immediate connection of just really enjoying our conversations. 3 days later we moved over to exchanging cell numbers, texting and chatting over the phone. 5 days after the texting and chatting, he started testing the waters with pet names. We also had made plans to meet for dinner. He lives about two hours from me. Our conversations have been great. We are comfortable with each other and just get each other. Dinner was great. He was a perfect gentleman and again, the connection was strong. He has other stuff going on his life, such as an 18 year old son who lives a few states away with his mother/stepfather and was having some issues with grades, etc. Also, very busy new job and he is trying to lose 20-30 pounds and get in shape since meeting me..
I am also emotionally, physically and financially fi..
Time and time again, people come to this forum with the identical problem and results you have set forth. They just don't know how to proceed at a pace that shows a willingness to learn about the other person and not be such an easy catch..
He pays the rent and the majority of the bills. He does not expect me to contribute monetarily because he knows that I make pocket change. However, he does work 60 hours a week while I usually only work 35. So I never mind doing the dishes, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, etc. Not because I'm the woman and it's my role, but because it is the best way that I can show my gratitude for him taking care of me financially for the time being..
I still don't believe you, theone.
He came back to me a few times throughout that phase. We would have sex but i could tell he didn't really want to talk to me. He was distant. He had another girlfriend..