My BF (late 20s) and I (mid 20s) have a great relationship -- it was instant chemistry, wonderful intimacy and fantastic times together from day 1. He's a bit mathematicall, doesnt easily express himself emotionally... But is an all round a true wholesome good man. In fact, he's been so receptive to me, my needs, and is so supportive, we continued the relationship even though I was planning to go to school in the UK for a year. He even came out with me to help pick a school... I met the parents and he met mine all is well... I am great with all his friends... On paper its near-perfect..
He doesn't care to put that energy out. Any other things in the relationship that isn't ideal? This would make me question the relationship. It seems like it's more about known as a couple than anything..
Sometimes even asking questions don't guarantee us the truth; she might not even know the answers herself. Like someone said here, it's like asking a snake why it bites..