If you went out with a guy only a few times over the course of a month, and he didn't want to be physical, then says "i am not feeling it", that means he never had romantic feelings..
Ridiculously cute :).
your boyfriend seems like a really good guy. It's hard to care for a child that isn't yours and he does it. but he has love for the child wich is really special. I understand that it makes you uncomfortable but this is a decison you must make for yourself. If you really care about him then i see no reason to leave...just talk about how you feel about the sistuation of the new clothes and shoes. I'm sure he'll understand that your worried about him. i know i'm not much help but this has to be done on your own..